4 lessons
Co-parenting & Family
Two homes, blended families, and the adults in the room.
Co-parenting & Family
Sibling rivalry: how to handle the fighting without becoming the referee
Stop the hurting, skip the verdict, and coach them to solve it. Kids fight less when they don't have to compete for you, and when nobody is cast as the good one.
Co-parenting & Family
How to tell your kids about divorce, and help them through it
Tell them together if you can, keep it simple and honest, and make it clear it's not their fault. Most kids adjust well over time, especially when parents keep conflict away from them.
Co-parenting & Family
Preparing your child for a new baby, and handling the jealousy after
Tell them in simple, honest terms, keep their routines steady, and expect some regression and jealousy. Making space for the hard feelings helps them come around to the baby.
Co-parenting & Family
Co-parenting after separation: conflict is the thing that matters most
Decades of divorce research point to one factor above most others. How much conflict children are exposed to, and whether they get caught in the middle.
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