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Homework, learning, motivation and the school years.
School Years
Signs of dyslexia, and how to get your child evaluated
Dyslexia is a common, lifelong difference in how the brain processes written language. It has nothing to do with intelligence, and early, structured reading help makes a real difference.
Emotional Development
Perfectionism in kids: how to ease the pressure without lowering the bar
Perfectionism has risen among young people, and kids' sense of their parents' expectations has risen with it. Here's how to help a child care about doing well without fearing every mistake.
Toddler & Preschool
Why play matters so much for young kids, and how to join in
Play isn't a break from learning. For young children it is learning, and the American Academy of Pediatrics says doctors should prescribe it. Here's how to make room for it.
School Years
Could it be ADHD? Signs, diagnosis and what helps
Every child is distractible sometimes. ADHD is a persistent pattern of inattention and/or hyperactivity that causes problems in more than one setting. Here's what to look for and how diagnosis and treatment work.
School Years
Kids and video games: how much is too much, and when it's a real problem
For most kids, moderate gaming is fine and can even be good. The warning sign isn't the number of hours, it's when gaming starts crowding out sleep, school, friends and family.
School Years
Teaching kids about money: allowance, saving and spending by age
Kids learn money by handling it. Start with coins and choices in preschool, an allowance with saving jars in the school years, and real budgets and a bank account by the teen years.
School Years
Bullying and cyberbullying: what to do when your kid is the target, or the bully
Bullying peaks in middle school and follows kids onto their phones. Here's how to help when your child is being picked on, and what to do if you find out your child is the one doing it.
School Years
How to praise kids so it builds effort, not pressure
"You're so smart" can backfire. Praising effort, strategy and progress helps kids take on challenges and bounce back from mistakes. Here's the research and what to say instead.
School Years
Kids and sports: keeping it fun, avoiding burnout, and being a good sideline parent
Kids mostly play sports for fun and friends. Pediatricians advise against early single-sport specialization, and the best sideline role is cheerleader, not coach.
Toddler & Preschool
Reading aloud to your child: why it matters and how to make it stick
Read together every day, starting in infancy, and talk about the book as you go. It builds vocabulary, closeness and a love of stories, and you can keep doing it long after they can read.
School Years
Homework without the nightly war
Research on homework and on praise gives parents a clear playbook. Hover less, praise effort precisely, and protect the child's ownership of the work.
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